Come In – But I Don’t Have Pants On

31 Aug

We were looking for a house sitter and found a friend. Whenever we leave our home in Mexico, we must find a house sitter, someone to care for the dogs and manage the house. Michelle was recommended after she had visited Bacalar last year. We found a real treasure.

Wannabe influencer.

We have had mixed results with previous house sitters. Walking out the door and handing the keys to the house and car to a virtual stranger is not without anxiety and consequences. We have been lucky and any damage over the last twelve years has been repairable.

Michelle added fun to anything she touched.

On several occasions we have found folks who have continued to be friends and returned to hang out on the lake and play with the dogs. But none like Michelle.

This crazy woman fit right into our quirky lives and we will miss her. We became “sisters” and Lisa’s mom became Mom to another daughter. Even the dogs have a new “Auntie Michelle.” She left on Friday with a promise to return. The house already feels empty.

Lisa’s Aunt Linda is also visiting.

Thank you Michelle for coming into our lives and being someone to talk to, a swimming companion, a dish washer, a sous chef and friend to Lisa’s mom. You have added laughter and companionship that we didn’t know we needed.

DOS TORTAS

10 Responses to “Come In – But I Don’t Have Pants On”

  1. LJones's avatar
    LJones August 31, 2025 at 11:05 am #

    Oh my – I would love to meet her one day…😊 I am missing bacalar today…sending love (my daughter and her husband are here from Mex city – and we’re headed to the Oregon coast today. They are celebrating their first year of marriage and he is now cancer free ! love to you three –

    Lorrie Jones
    Simple Serenity
    simpleserenity.comhttp://simpleserenity.com/
    253.312.3117

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  2. Gail Beyrle's avatar
    Gail Beyrle September 1, 2025 at 9:14 am #

    Love this story. With no family close by, my friends are my family.

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    • afish25's avatar
      afish25 September 2, 2025 at 8:46 am #

      I find friends hard to come by as well. If I don’t reach out to people, I don’t hear from them.

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  3. Jack Scott's avatar
    Jack Scott September 4, 2025 at 2:36 am #

    Michelle sounds wonderful!

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  4. Emilie's avatar
    Emilie September 5, 2025 at 7:35 am #

    It’s great when a person like Michelle comes into our lives. Lucky you!

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    • afish25's avatar
      afish25 September 7, 2025 at 12:34 pm #

      Indeed, lucky us. Our dogs keep going to her room looking for her.

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  5. Michelle's avatar
    Michelle September 7, 2025 at 9:06 am #

    Omg! Being back in the States has been so hard, especially after leaving behind a family who cared for me so deeply. The exchange of stories and experiences we shared has been nothing short of amazing and so touching. For so long, I thought I’d go through life without truly knowing what a real family felt like. My vision of “family” was flawed, and I feel so blessed to have been shown what compassion and empathy really look like through all of you.

    We haven’t even scratched the surface of the life-and-death story that led us to cross paths — it’s honestly Netflix worthy! The fire in me is burning to return, because I’d be a fool to walk away from the true love I’ve found in you all. I love you so very much ❤️

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    • afish25's avatar
      afish25 September 7, 2025 at 12:31 pm #

      You are always welcome my dear.

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