Archive | July, 2025

Love Means Having Your Back

27 Jul

After ten months of recovering from an accident where I broke my femur and had surgery, I get down quite often. I want to be able to walk without pain or limping. The other day, in a tearful fit of feeling sorry for myself, Lisa reminded me how far I’ve come and said, “you’re doing great, you’re still healing .”

My surgeon said it would take a year.

Lisa has my back which makes all the difference in my healing process. Her comment also reminded me of when my mother had my back growing up.

My unstoppable mother.

I missed a lot of school as a kid due to asthma. In those days there wasn’t really any treatment. One day I returned to second grade having forgotten to bring my rosary. Bless their hearts those nuns had a lot of rules. I believe my “fine” was a quarter (25 cents) and I refused to pay it. I was about eight or so with an inflated indignation and sense of fairness.

Summer vacation.

The end of the school year came and Sr Angela refused to give me my report card until I paid up. I went to my mother who marched with me to the principal’s office to let me plead my case. The teacher was called on the carpet and turned over my report card tout suite.

Such a good Catholic girl.

It wasn’t the last time my mom had my back. She bought me long white gloves and a rabbit fur cape for my junior prom. They were adornments that I didn’t know I needed. God knows where she got the money, but it was important to her. I was her only daughter and no one had done those things for her.

1969

After almost thirty-one years I have so much gratitude for my wife. Having her in my corner means the world to me. Also thanks Mom,

DOS TORTAS

Torta Time Out

20 Jul

While we are off galavanting (my mother’s favorite word) here’s an earlier blog to enjoy.

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Always An Excuse For A Party

13 Jul

The Tortas are on our annual visit to Northern California. Our granddaughters turned seven and it was time for the pool party of the century.

The calm before the storm.
Each with their own themed cake.
Gringo taco bar included.
Grandma Lisa doing Spanish with the girls.

My poor daughter got sick and wasn’t able to attend the party. Instead, she ended up at minor emergency with early pneumonia and more antibiotics. And today we clean up.

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When In Rome

6 Jul

One thing I like about living in Mexico is that I get to ignore most US holidays. I am not an expat that tries to recreate my origin country in Mexico. No backyard barbecue dressed in the american flag for us.

My MIL loves Christmas for the presents of course, so I don’t get to skate past that one. We do manage to keep the decorations and gift giving to a minimum.

Such was not the case at the Fourth of July bash that we attended with our kids in Northern California. The rocking event put on by their friends is in its twenty-third year. The party spills out from the garage, to the driveway and into the street. Food was catered, a disc jockey blasted and kids had much to entertain them.

My grandson was turning blue before his mom could drag him out of the dunk tank.
USers are so subtle.
One cranky child missing.

All in all a good time was had. The Tortas however were in bed before the fireworks 🎆 went off. Thank God for Uber.

DOS TORTAS

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