A Father Extraordinaire

16 Mar

My father was raised by the Boy Scouts. His own father bailed when he was young, and Dad found his people in a sleeping bag, around a campfire and under the stars. He taught me preparedness, first aid, and to love and respect the environment. “Always leave things cleaner than you found them”. We kids spent a lot of time picking up trash, cigarette butts and bottle caps.

Eighteen years old during the Great Depression
On vacation, visiting Fort Ticonderoga in far north New York State.

Dad was a blue collar worker and as our clan grew in the 1950’s we became a family of campers. Five kids piled into our huge Chevy wagon, sometimes including a few cousins and always Fritz, the dachshund. Daddy had his own little scout troop and he loved it.

Our car was blue.

Dad’s factory closed down the first two weeks of August every year. We borrowed a huge canvass tent and my mom managed to buy a camping stove and lantern. We traveled up and down the East coast of the US from New York and Virginia to the beaches of North Carolina. Believe me, camping on the beach takes a special skill.

Cape Hatteras, North Carolina

To give my mom a break, Dad did most of the cooking. Preparing food over a campfire was a challenge my father embraced. He could bake a birthday cake by lowering a cast iron pot into hot coals. He cleverly placed a few pebbles inside to balance a pan of cake batter. The pot was called a Dutch oven, and it worked perfectly.

My brother and I at the New Jersey Shore. Same tent.

I have so many memories of the games we played while driving down the highway. They were designed to entertain without devices and to prevent the incessant barrage of, “are we there yet?” He sang in his baritone voice, songs that I later realized were from his childhood scout troop.

Daddy knew every verse of this folk song.

https://youtu.be/8ZlpNVECeaw?si=FJ_dt_iejc60kNBd

My dad loved parades, holidays, especially Halloween and family vacations. We always won prizes from his imaginative costumes dreamed up at the last minute from wigs, face paint and long underwear pulled from a box that was kept in the attic.

After retirement on a rafting trip with my mother.

My childhood was filled with memories that even now bring a tear to think about. He was one-of-a-kind and those simple times are long gone.

DOS TORTAS

15 Responses to “A Father Extraordinaire”

  1. Lisa Thompson's avatar
    Lisa Thompson March 16, 2025 at 1:33 pm #

    I wish I could have met him. He sounds amazing.

    He reminds me so much of my grandfather.

    what wonderful memories. Thanks for sharing

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    • afish25's avatar
      afish25 March 16, 2025 at 1:52 pm #

      I could write a book! Glad you liked the post.

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      afish25 March 16, 2025 at 3:20 pm #

      He would have loved you

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  2. LJones's avatar
    LJones March 16, 2025 at 10:59 pm #

    Alex – this is so touching…what a wonderful father…so intelligent and ahead of his time..i’d love to see more photos…

    We’ll be at Pehaltun on April 21st or 22nd…need anything? I leave April 7th for mex city – so let me know before then ..

    Love from Boise…visiting my son and getting our first leg of permanent residency…xoxo to all

    Lorrie Jones
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  3. Joel Grieshaber's avatar
    Joel Grieshaber March 16, 2025 at 11:43 pm #

    Very nice blog! We had the same Chevy station wagon in blue.

    Joel Grieshaber

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  4. jamurray2014's avatar
    jamurray2014 March 17, 2025 at 3:46 am #

    love this—what a great childhood!

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    • afish25's avatar
      afish25 March 17, 2025 at 8:33 am #

      My parents did a pretty darn good job for having less than stellar role models.

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  5. Jack Scott's avatar
    Jack Scott March 17, 2025 at 4:41 am #

    Wonderful memories of an amazing childhood. And your dad was quite a looker 😉

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    • afish25's avatar
      afish25 March 17, 2025 at 8:31 am #

      Was he ever! A real ladies man in his youth. Devoted to my mother.

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  6. jhelen45's avatar
    jhelen45 March 18, 2025 at 12:52 pm #

    I loved your post about your dad. So special.

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    • afish25's avatar
      afish25 March 18, 2025 at 7:59 pm #

      So good to hear from you. Think of you often.

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  7. Emilie's avatar
    Emilie March 20, 2025 at 8:26 am #

    What a great dad! My parents never took us camping. I got sent away to Girl Scout camp and learned to love the out-of-doors. That way this is continued into adulthood and I’m thankful for the opportunities I got.

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