No New Year Resolutions Here

30 Dec

There was a time when I attempted to make New Year’s resolutions. What could be more inviting than a clean slate, and a chance to start new? I’m pretty disciplined and used the wall calendar to note progress. But let’s face it, if it were something that I really wanted to do, I’d already be doing it!

I then found something that worked much better for me. The process not only encouraged gratitude but pride and confidence. And it’s easy!

2023 was a colorful year to say the least.

In a journal or on a simple piece of paper, write 2023. Now over the next few days write down all that you accomplished this past year. Nothing is too small or seemingly inconsequential. Just write it down.

When that is completed, Write on another sheet, 2024. Now note all the things you’d like to accomplish in the upcoming year. Nothing is too fanciful. You can write personal or work accomplishments, trips, or any task you’d like to tackle. Put them all down with little thought or mental argument.

Put the journal away someplace where you’ll find it next year. It could be in with your Christmas decorations or at the back of your daily calendar. There is no need to come up with a game plan, strategy or any additional tactics, of course unless you want to. While it may sound a bit woo-woo, you have planted seeds and set an intention with absolutely no pressure. Voila!

Dreams, desires, goals.

My personal experience has always amazed me. When I review the previous year, I am amazed to find how many of the things on the list I have accomplished. I rarely remember what I even wrote down!

I find it helpful to take stock of my life in a positive no-pressure way. The lists also become a walk down memory lane and are a fun history. Let me know if you give it a try and we’ll check back next year to see how it went.

Wait for it.

DOS TORTAS

6 Responses to “No New Year Resolutions Here”

  1. LJones's avatar
    LJones December 31, 2023 at 4:00 pm #

    Just in time!! I was actually about to make some resolutions… I’m going to try your suggestion!:) Happy New Year to all if you????

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    • afish25's avatar
      afish25 January 1, 2024 at 9:41 am #

      Thanks. The way I suggested is lots more fun!

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  2. LJones's avatar
    LJones December 31, 2023 at 4:02 pm #

    Ps we are picking up our friend from playa – maria – here for 3 days:) thank god its a bit warmer ..

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  3. Jack Scott's avatar
    Jack Scott January 1, 2024 at 6:48 am #

    What a great idea! 🙂

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