Ten Years Living In Mexico

24 Nov

When we moved to the small jungle town of Bacalar in 2014, there was of course much to learn and adjust to. We were looking for a slower pace and to stretch our retirement dollars. I had gone to college in Central Mexico in the 70’s, travelled the country extensively, loved the culture and spoke Spanish. We loved the pyramids, fiestas and people, what could go wrong?

Small groceries are the best.
  1. Travel – there’s a small “international” airport forty minutes from our house. In 2014 I imagined catching a flight to Austin to celebrate family events, birthdays and holidays. I should have done more research. All flights out of Chetumal pass through Mexico City’s enormous and confusing Benito Juarez airport. Connecting flights are often impossible to make requiring over night stays and $$$. Additional travel considerations were not thought out with the addition of Lisa’s mom and two dogs. Alice can no longer travel by herself and the dogs and house require house sitters, even for a long weekend in Merida. Not to mention that flying is not as much fun as it used to be.
  2. Friendship – While I have talked about the challenges of making friends with expats, I haven’t talked about friendships with locals. Bacalar is small enough that shop owners, fellow gym rats and Lisa’s students and parents from the school she volunteers at, greet us warmly. Sometimes we get side-eye over who these foreigners are. It helps that Lisa’s Spanish has greatly improved. After ten years it’s nice to feel like we belong.
  3. Transportation – For me, Mexico has always been an example of public transportation at its finest. Buses, colectivos and taxis were frequent and economical. As the Mexican economy improved, people bought cars. Individual transportation is far more common today than ever before.
View from our dock.
Bus from 1975.
Flying into Mexico City

For the most part life here has been a joy. We have zero regrets. A crystal ball to predict Covid would have been nice. We also don’t have to deal directly with the current political climate in the US. Hopefully in a few more weeks I will be on my feet and life will look a bit more “normal”, whatever that is.

DOS TORTAS

8 Responses to “Ten Years Living In Mexico”

  1. LJones's avatar
    LJones November 24, 2024 at 5:39 pm #

    If it had a dollar …for every plan I thought would work beautifully –!! Love your honest blogs – they make my Sundays xoxo see youj soon

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      afish25 November 26, 2024 at 11:31 am #

      So true. We’d all be rich!

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  2. Jack Scott's avatar
    Jack Scott November 25, 2024 at 4:36 am #

    Congratulations on your first decade in Mexico, I’m delighted the hear the good outweighs the not so good. That’s the best anyone of us can hope for wherever we may lay our hat. Good luck for the next decade and beyond! 😀

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    • afish25's avatar
      afish25 November 26, 2024 at 11:28 am #

      You are absolutely right! All any of us can ask for.

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  3. Emilie's avatar
    Emilie November 25, 2024 at 4:47 am #

    Ten years!
    Flying is one reason I’ve opted not to move to Mexico. Flying into Mexico City is pretty far down on the list of things I’d like to do. W-A-Y far down. To visit? Sure. To pass through? No.
    But to live there seems like a dream come true.
    Congratulations to you!

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    • afish25's avatar
      afish25 November 26, 2024 at 11:29 am #

      There have been a lot of changes to the airport but it’s still a mess.

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  4. Karen Hodgens's avatar
    Karen Hodgens November 25, 2024 at 9:59 pm #

    Yes, the political climate is making me long for somewhere else. At 78 it feel more daunting that I’m capable of. Hope you are up and about soon!

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    • afish25's avatar
      afish25 November 26, 2024 at 11:30 am #

      I’m slowly making progress. Yeah!

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