A Time Long Ago

18 Jun

My first foray into electronic communication was a pager. I had a job in 1993 that required field work and my supervisor wanted to be able to contact me. It was also convenient for my partner and children.

Happy Pride
Evening doodles

The only person who didn’t like the pager was me! I felt tethered. It felt weird for people to be able to reach me all the time. I tend to be a private person.

Fast forward to today when EVERYTHING is public. Most of the folks at the gym spend more time posing and recording their every muscle, than they do actually working out. We “follow “ each other rather than having relationships.

Learning to draw faces
My ladies.

And much to my wife’s annoyance, I often forget my phone at home, or in the car, sigh. I am certainly not one who has a phone on my wrist. In Mexico no one calls each other anyway. They use WhatsApp, a texting application which is rarely used in the States.

Don’t get me wrong, I love hearing from people. I enjoy the comments on the blog, Facebook and Instagram (dos_tortas). I guess I’m more a product of the times than I want to admit. But anytime you want to have a conversation, just let me know, we’ll set it up.

DOS. TORTAS

4 Responses to “A Time Long Ago”

  1. Jack Scott's avatar
    Jack Scott June 21, 2023 at 11:35 am #

    I must confess that I’m rather glued to my phone these days. It’s interesting that WhatsApp isn’t that big in the States. It’s all the rage here as it’s free and secure.

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    • afish25's avatar
      afish25 June 21, 2023 at 5:17 pm #

      I know! WhatsApp is how people talk in Mexico. Most people are glued to their phones. It’s the nature of the beast.

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  2. Karen Hodgens's avatar
    Karen Hodgens July 3, 2023 at 7:56 pm #

    I’ve never thought of myself as a private person, but as an only child, aloneness is comfortable. At 76, I grew up talking on telephones. I like to TALK to people. Texting is OK, but I have no idea what a person is really thinking or feeling from a text. Yes, I have a cell phone, yes, I take it with me if I’m going in the car. No, I do not take it when I go for a walk. I’m a damn dinosaur, a left-over person from a different era. I most just don’t care about all these new apps. I don’t look at my phone every other minute. I have FB, never had Instagram or Tik Tok. Actually, I even like like cards or letters. Yup, dinosaur.

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    • afish25's avatar
      afish25 July 3, 2023 at 8:18 pm #

      No TikTok for me. I like to send post cards.

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